You are right. Caution is the word that may better applied here. I just got off the phone with my DB coach. We have planed to talk again before my next schedule meeting with W.
I am little more optimistic now than I was a few days ago. I also know that this is just one of the first steps of 10,000 + more I will have to take before this sitch comes to an end.
I can feel good about my GAL and which helps reinforce my PMA. One thing I have learned tonight, that all of my reading, therapy, feed back from you guys, and the DB coach is making decisions from the heart and for the right reasons will be best course of action. Using LRT as a guide, but temper it with unspoken understanding, patients, love, caring, and affection. Knowing that I am doing it for the right reasons will help me approach each situation without fear, anger and control, which were part of our problems in our M.
This may the wrong way to do it, but it feels good to me and if it doesn’t work out, then I know that it did the best way could. I will better for it.
