I don't really know about the 180's, but I suspect you are correct. This first time this issue really came to a head (years ago), she was convinced I was going to divorce her, and completely fell apart. I felt so sorry for her in that much emotional pain that I never said much about the sexual issues, and even that was after I had comforted her and assured her I was not leaving.
I may be confused as hell, but of this I am convinced - there is some underlying *simple* cause to these problems. Likely a choice made in anger at some point along the way. I don't think that people (myself included) realize how a small bad choice can grow into a monster bad decision years later.
Hey, smoking that first cigarette wasn't such a big deal. Neither was the first time I snorted heroin...
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
