Still with the same GF for now but am slowing things way down. We've been living almost as if we were married and it bothers her as well as me. Time to take some of my life back as we've been spending ridiculous amounts of time together with no time to be alone or to do our own thing.
My X has lost her job and is now trying to use me for a sounding board/ shoulder to cry on, I just nod my head and wonder what she must be going through. She keeps talking about moving away but I don't think she will as she has been involved with the kids way more lately. I barely recognize her anymore she is dressing a little more her age now but is "puffy" looking, almost swollen. It must be the piercings in her face that did it.
I would say my X is near rock bottom but not there yet and we are about 2 months shy of separation.
Life goes on for me just the same as it always did now that the pain of the split is gone. Funny thing is that I never thought I would be OK being alone or in a different R, I see now that I need no one to complete me, and it is a pretty good feeling.
