Quote: I do think I will tell her precisely why I will NOT be getting angry.
but you are angry...or at least some form of it.
I understand how you feel...to the umpth power..try being a woman, an attractive sexy young woman at that and being turned down, being told on sunday night...tommorow night...I'm too tired tonight..only to have sun turn to wed with still no return...and to note that the last few interactions were by your own initiation!
I don't know what we are to do about the lack of initiative from our spouses...it is not a new issue for me to deal with...I've been dealing with it for the better part of 12 years and have only been married for just under 6. I'm 30 now...it was not easy to have it blatantly obvious to you that others wanted you physically to come home to or go visit (before m) the one who is "supposed" to want you and be denied by them.
I've tried to focus on what I do get from h...I try to keep my attention deverted to the other possitives things he brings to the r, I try to appreciate the occassional stray hug or peck on the forehead...but I too want some passion.
it's all very frustrating but I wonder is it worth ending a m over?