I am so sorry that you've had such a rough day. I know how hard this is and how it wears you down, but Sweetie you are STRONG.
Husband's showing up again just goes to show that your feelings don't really matter to him at the moment. What he wants and needs come first. Even when we've decided that it's in our best interest to move on it still hurts to be treated so coldly and disrespectfully by someone we have loved. So A good cry? Yup, I would say that that was in order.