It's your choice whether or not to agree to an uncontested divorce.
Know that if you refuse, your husband will be angry.
Not that that has to really matter. You do not want a divorce, your position is that you would do nothing to expedite the matter, but you will also not stand in the way.
Realize this. You have NO control over your husbands actions. None. He is a big boy and he gets to decide what to do. I know it hurts like hell to hear that your spouse wants a divorce, but what can you do?
His decision to push a divorce really should be irrelevant to you.
If you love this man and believe that the two of you belong together, a divorce is simply yet another blow that you are strong enough to endure.
He has already divorced you emotionally, and I think you know this.
It is still not too late to being making some changes in YOU.
And these changes can STILL impact him with time.
Regardless of what happens, you must find a way back to peace and strength. So you need this time one way or the other.
His actions on this do NOT affect the decisions that YOU need to make to find health and well being again. Do NOT allow this to stop you.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
