Thank you for your comments. My H was so angry last night and says that because of some of the things I said and did, he will not forgive me, and "we are done."
He appararently called his laywer today to prove that. My attorney called me late this afternoon and said that he wants to move forward with the D as quickly as possible. And, he is willing to still try the uncontested D if I will agree to what he wants. And, if she does not hear from my attorney by this Wednesday @ 5 p.m. that they will file immediately.
BTW, I did tell my atty that I would call him and try to discuss his terms with him right away. I did call and, of course, he did not answer. So, I left a message and asked him to please call me to talk about the terms, but he never returned my call.
I guess there is where I stand now. Also, I have to say that I went into shock when I heard my attny say those words. I started crying and cried for a long time. Now, I'm just knots inside, but no tears.
thanks for your post, poet
P.S. And thank you for your post, Bill. I really needed to hear the following words.
"Exercise that strength. Find a way to put the weak, sad person aside, only to come out in your quiet, personal times (or on this board)."
