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So XH calls me at 1:00am and is crying. He starts begging me to take him back. Saying that he really messed up and that no one will love me as much as I do. That he has a sexual problem and should have sought couseling instead of finding another woman.


Wow.

Sometimes I hope I never have to hear this from H. Its almost easier when they leave and don't turn around with regrets, isn't it?

At this point in time, you have done the right thing. If he is serious about wanting you back, MAJOR steps would have to take place: completely done with OW, in counseling, etc. Your heart and mind....such a hard battle.