So XH calls me at 1:00am and is crying. He starts begging me to take him back. Saying that he really messed up and that no one will love me as much as I do. That he has a sexual problem and should have sought couseling instead of finding another woman.

It broke my heart to say, but I had to tell him no. I can't take him back. My head says that would be the stupidest thing I could do. My heart was saying....YES come back and we will work it out! But I would be such a fool. So I was strong and told him that I couldn't do that.

He is still talking to the OW. Just tonight he was over to get this things (and he looked like Bozo the Clown I must add), I could hear her on talking on the other line. It irkes me that he is still with her. She is just so BAD!

Good news....new guy is coming over right now to help me refinance the house. \:\)

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08