It's time for this emotional game to end. It has almost destroyed you once before. Allowing it the chance to do so again, without GOOD reason to believe she has opened her eyes and seen the truth, should not be an option.
It's not just you Frank.
It's your two lovely ladies at home too.
I've told you on the phone many times that I believed that your wife was one who would not see the mistakes she was making until she began to TRULY live the life she THINKS she wants.
And the danger Frank is that it turns out she really did want just what she's about to get.
But you have to let her go anyway.
If you allow her to find the easy way out of this difficulty again, you are nothing more than an enabler. And ultimately you will be unable to point fingers anywhere but at yourself.
It's the old Fram oil filter commercial.
Pay me now or pay me later.
I think they tried to tell us the first option was the right one.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
