I would go as far as saying that seperate activities are very healthy for a healthy relationship. For a relationship that is teetering along ...... maybe a sprinkle of seperate activities will do the trick. We have been doing almost nothing together recently....and now this.....does not seem right is an understatement I would say. Am I being taken for granted? I will let you guys be the judge of that. I am afraid that if I move out, it will take extra ordinary circumstances to do this all over again. Actually, something told me that I should have held off a little longer...ie. perhaps date for a while.... We will see how the talk goes this evening and go from there. Here is a perfect example of the difference between my W and I. i played golf last Thursday and this Sunday. Both times my W was busy and I used my mom to babysit. I was invited to a big tournament on tuesday....I desided that in order not to rock the boat too much that it would be better not to go......compare that with W wanting to spend 3 - 4 days in Mexico. What's wrong with this picture?