You sound so good. So positive and happy. Good for you. I know it is hard knowing that you had to make the difficult decision to file and then go through with it. I struggle with that myself....
I find myself comparing the guy I have been on 2 dates with to my xh only in a positive way. "Xh would have NEVER asked me about that!" "Wow this guy has a job and has NO debt?" Stuff like that.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08