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[MichelleLT]

I realize it's a little different when we've already been told things are over...but here's the "symptoms" I see

dating while living with W
hiding/destroying memories of the good times (regardless of whether you still have softcopies, that act was pretty damn symbolic emotionally)
nothing positive to say about W (or very few) - very focused on negatives/hopelessness

Those types of things are not making me angry, because i have very rarely gotten angry in the past few months, i had alot of opportunities to get mad, but didn't.

This statement can be taken as detachment, or apathy, or numbness. You're inside your head, so you know better than I.

Frankly, 4 months is nothing compared to a lot of people on this board. And while I'm not one to harp on you about the dating as I have been seeing someone recently, that started 11 months after I moved in with my roommate. Yes, you're right that people deal with things differently and on different time schedules, but frankly I see you trying to fill the void in your life with a new person, and it seems too fast.

You seem to be moving very fast. Acting impulsively. You closed the door on your W very quickly is all I'm saying.

That's just what I see from your posts, obviously it's not the whole picture.