Oh my goodness- this sounds so familiar!!! Don't answer him! He has no business asking and expecting answers from you! My H does this to me all the time and it is so obvious he is worried about what you are doing! Just let him worry! You don't need to lie - just don't answer. And his phone call back to you to let you know he had plans is such a game to try and make you jealous, like he is!!!! don't buy into it and don't answer him - let him worry a bit. I don't answer my H, and his imagination is so much bigger than what is really going on, that it makes him crazy and I know he misses me and is wondering who I am with and what I am doing - which is good. But I don't lie - I just let him do his own lying by imagining what is happening.
I probably have these same conversations once a week lately, and I love it because I know he is thinking about me. Absence makes the heart grow fonder - especially when they think you are growing fonder of someone else!


Me-48 H-48
Married 25years
Sep 12/05
S-24, S-22, S-18, D-12
Dated for 9 months of S, not dating now
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