Lisa, I'm with you on this one, after so many years with my ex, it does seem cruel/unfair/plain annoying that he chooses to wait until I am nearly menopausal to leave me! Grr. And being amongst your family highlights that they arent by your side anymore.
I dont suppose you need to go the bank route...just knock on CEOs door! Oh, no wait, we already did that one (big chinned babies are a no-no).
I wasnt surprised that H didnt respond, it might be awkward for him to on a weekend with wotsit about. I bet he emails you soon though, he has been way more in contact lately. DOnt email him first! (I know you wont)
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread