Originally Posted By: MichelleLT
Hmm, I think you mistake indifference for numbness which is hiding that resentment/anger.

Why would you shred your wedding photos? They're part of you, part of your past, regardless of how the M went.

$20 says this is exactly where your W was mentally a few months ago. You are acting/thinking like a WAH IMHO.


I have the pics electronically that's why :P I shredded the ones that were in frames meant for the wall.

The anger was there, i think the longer we stay in the house, i just don't want to deal with her. Last night she brought up the fact that she can't keep the house, but i can so why am I not taking it on. Why do i want a condo now, i wanted the house, i can afford it, why am i not.

Those types of things are not making me angry, because i have very rarely gotten angry in the past few months, i had alot of opportunities to get mad, but didn't. heck W keeps trying to get me to lose my cool by statements she makes.

What makes you think i am acting like WAH now?