Maybe it's Midlife Crisis at any age?

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Do the actions first. The feelings may or may not come later.

What you must do is stop being available.

Do not hug him.
Do not kiss him.
Do not even be around for that stuff.
Only return every 3rd or 4th call or text.
When you are


Learn to focus and center yourself.
Stay on one thread.
Take one path to work on this and stick with it (versus being allover the place with advice).
Get a self-focus journal....one that lets you write down all the things YOU like about everything.
Work on a hobby. Something that occupies a lot of time.