Yeah, I think the changing of names and titles gets to me for the same reason.
I've gotten fine with saying I'm getting D, or will be D soon, or that I'm S. But I don't call him my XH, cuz he's not...yet.
I am single status at work as of today. Officially. And ok , i am Sep. and will be D in a year, i think it was the fact that my mom refuses to take the wedding picture off her wall, and i have allready shredded all of mine. That just bugged me a little, but i think i talked her into it
