Sawks, just checking. If she knows all that and still wants to date you, that's cool. But why the XW bit?
I react to the premature changing of names and titles because all of our WAS's do it. My W was going by her maiden name and calling me her XH a couple days after we separated. In fact, her Facebook still says "in case anyone was wondering, I'm still getting a divorce". OK, well just file already and get on with it
Divorce takes a long of time, and I think that's a good thing. I understand your impatience, but be careful about closing the door right when things might be changing. You never know...
Oh, and as for my day, just check my thread
Fait enuff bud.. i just thought I would practice the XW thing. I have closed the door now, i don't want a M or R with W anymore, even if she changed her mind now, I am now done. I just don't want to go back there, 3 months, 2 months, 1 month ago i thought I did. I did ALOT of grieving alone, and I am very very strong now. I am not going back. I know this is not what folks want to hear on this site. Just sayin. The door might be open , but it is 0.02%
MY W changed to her maiden name pretty quick, and has surely told everybody i am this and that, why would i want to get back to that place..
