Quoting AchingMan:
Perhaps I have been cut-off for being too anxious, pushy, and horny...

Aching Man,
You crack me up LOL

Sooner just got locked out of his post because it grew too big due to us trespassers.

BTW, I don't think anyone can change their core values even if they tried. Your W appears to be trying to reach out to you by talking, romantic dinners etc. Maybe you just need to relax a little instead of feeling like a time bomb all the time AND you should also listen to MPT. She dishes out great advise. She continues to amaze me with her insight, I am sure Sooner will agree.
LH