Yeah, I think the changing of names and titles gets to me for the same reason.

I've gotten fine with saying I'm getting D, or will be D soon, or that I'm S. But I don't call him my XH, cuz he's not...yet.

Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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