Yeah, drag to see you is even too strong to say about my cheating wife. I was just thinking about reversing roles so your W could understand how you feel. Is she empathetic of how you feel.
I understand the issue - I felt the same way when W would take off every weekend evening to have fun. I wanted to be part of the fun, but I felt that she looked at me as only the babysitter.
There is nothing wrong with having separate activities, but repeated vacations away from family does not seem right.
Do you think she is taking you for granted again?
Only you can make the decision of when you feel your happiness in the marriage is suffering so much that you want to separate. And if you do, will the cycle continue again where your W wants you back only to return to taking John for granted.
