You would know what a drag it is to see you? That's a little strong....good song though. The destination is not really the problem. She does ok in spanish and english. The not part of her plans has overtaken the trust issue...maybe I am just being naive. The worst part about all this is if this was going on 2 years ago, I would have no problem with her going away. At this point the fact that she would rather spend the better part of labour day weekend away from me and D7 speaks volumes on where her head is. Again I ask...am I in left field?