Is anybody else having trouble posting? For some reason I can post here but I can't reply or send messages to anybody in the SSM site.
Perhaps I have been cut-off for being too anxious, pushy, and horny...
here's a message for MPT that I couldn't post:
Thanks for the advice MPT,
Although I have some doubts about the simplicity with which you present some ideas for me, I really appreciate the thought you put into responding and I will definitely put your advice into action with more conscious effort.
I have realized something though, that if she leaves me one day it won’t be over sex, it will be because she feels the differences in our core values have reached unwieldy proportions. I’m not sure that I would have the backbone to leave her under any circumstances, even if I was extremely unhappy or being abused, although with-holding sex may be a form of psychological and physical abuse, that is, if you consider that neglect is abuse .
Last night was rather strange. My wife got the kid hooked up with staying over at a friend’s house so when I got home I was surprised and quietly pleased with the news, thinking (but not letting my hope jump up and down too much) that maybe she was interested in a romantic evening since we were alone (doesn’t happen much). I was wrong because although we had a pleasant dinner with wine, candles and nice conversation I noticed a hostility flaring up and down. I suspect pms may be rearing its ugly head. Anyway, I don’t know why I’m starting to ramble about nonsense. I better go now.
