Sawks, just checking. If she knows all that and still wants to date you, that's cool. But why the XW bit?
I react to the premature changing of names and titles because all of our WAS's do it. My W was going by her maiden name and calling me her XH a couple days after we separated. In fact, her Facebook still says "in case anyone was wondering, I'm still getting a divorce". OK, well just file already and get on with it
Divorce takes a long of time, and I think that's a good thing. I understand your impatience, but be careful about closing the door right when things might be changing. You never know...
Oh, and as for my day, just check my thread
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK