Puppy, because she is so unstable right now,I don't know what else to do, if I tell her no I'll take the kids to school she might go back to L and fight for custody.

she is going to be working every night except Sat and Sun, if she takes the kids, then she can take them to school the next week.

I don't suspect she will even keep the every other weekend schedule becasue that will cut into her social life.

Like I posted ealier, we have been seperated for 3 months now and she hasn't once taken the kids for a weekend.

She hasn't had to deal with the kids being kids, I don't know what she is going to do with them in her small apartment, she has already told the kids to be quiet on several occasions when they were over there during the day, because of an elder lady who lives below her. I can just see the kids jumping on the beds being kids, etc.

M45
W41
M10.75 years
D9, D6, D6, S5
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
W files for D 07/18/08
Date I'll forgive W for A = never