Lan, I have to admit that OM did cross my mind. No intimacy and then this? However, at this point it does not matter. The more I think about it, the more I know that I can not continue living with a person who does not want me in her everyday life (or so it seems). My idea of a relationship is nowhere close to what I have been living since we came back from the DR. There is a limit to my patience. I have come to the conclusion that if she goes to Mexico, I will be out before labour day. I have no intention of using it as an ultimatum but you are right, just her thinking about going away without her husband is cause for concern.
