Wow....Happy Camper...I'm still following your story.

I'm so so sorry it has all come out and you are going through this pain.

Your H has many many problems, but on top of the list is sex addiction. (many abuse survivors struggle with this)

Honey, it doesn't excuse his behavior but what it should tell you is that your sitch is not the usual infidelity sitch.

Please go read up about sexual addiction. I am sure there are resources for the spouses of addicted people that will help you with healing.

DQ