[its to early I have to be accommodating until D is final - I'm really walking on thin ice right now all the paperwork is being prepared
Jeff,
This MIGHT work, but I see two problems with it:
1) One man's "accommodation" is another man's "appeasement," and appeasement never works -- it only invites them to seek more power.
2) You are making "an assumption of goodwill", which, while it might be true of human interactions IN GENERAL, I DON'T think it's true in infidelity situations and other wayward situations where the opponent is not of a real sound mind at the moment.
