hey, na ~ new disguise, but same old Ingrid. I've been off the board for about a month - too busy, too confused, too whatever. I can't tell you how many times I've started a post to someone only to give up two sentences in.
Sorry that you are still struggling with the money/trust issue.
Do you have call display, so you can avoid the calls that aren't for you? Can you just ignore the phone and only return calls to people you actually want to speak to? Can your outgoing message give your H's cell #, for those people that really need to talk to him, like debt collectors?
Is your name on the account? Can you take it off, so it really is his problem and not yours? Then you can just sympathize without getting involved.
As my new thread says, more questions than answers
