Let her deal with stuff. It will both make her feel better about her own abilities as a person, and also appreciate the ways you did look out for her.
Good point again. This is working already.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK