You're doing great. I was thinking....so, you and your wife are doing the "one week you have the kids, one week she does"? Why don't you do, Mon, Tues, Wed am you got them, wed pm, thurs, fri, she has them, and then sat/sun you got them. Then the following week Mon, Tues, Wed am she has them, etc. Then, the kids and you won't be away from each other for as long a period of time. I would think that is VERY hard on the littlest one.