The other day when we got back from our trip, I went to my parents camp alone to celebrate my mom's b-day since my H said he had to work.
When I got back into town, I text my H to let him know I would be home chilling. He said he was too drunk to drive so he would see me the next day. I said o.k.
Then when I went to bed I said the "hedge of thorns" prayer because I know my H will live his own free will and continue to drink heavily at bars without me, but I pray that he will not find satisfaction in it.
Then at about 3:30a.m. I got a call from him to see if I could come pick him up to bail him out from a DWI. This is the thrird time he has gotten out of a DWI with just a warning.
He was so thankful to me, and loving. But I just cant believe that he will not learn from these experiences. The officer told me the only reason he was letting him go, was that because he sees his truck around the bars in town all the time and that he knows he will get him again. I told my H and he laughed it off.
So, even though our R seems to be going well, I still am not getting many of my needs met. He still has major drinking probelm, he still doesnt want to move back in with me, he still will not face my family or friends very often, and he still definetly still checks out other women.
I am so afraid to say anything to him anymore about any of these topics becuase they have only led to fights and him running again. Am I supposed to just sit back and be patient here or am I missing some major facts about getting what you want out of relationships??? TIPPER
