Maybe it's Midlife Crisis at any age?

[TwinDad]

OK, maybe I'm deceiving myself, but I can see my part as having panicked and reacted with fear and anger, when I suspected and discovered there was another woman in my H's life.

Not the part I was referring to. Actually I was referring to more of the things that you talked about in your other thread....the SSM (and discussions with Bagherra). I suspect you carry some guilt for this. I am not faulting you, just acknowledging that guilt often comes with it. Does some part of you blame yourself for your H's straying. I do feel he handled this completely wrong. If you do feel guilt for this then you have every right to forgive yourself for it. Part of the forgiveness might be to take steps to help keeping this from happening to you in the future (either in this R or another). You would know these answers better than anyone. I am not looking to point the finger at you,perhaps just trying to get you to be a better Poet, despite what has happened to you in the past. You have certainly been through a lot.


((((((Poet))))))