I have not posted much lately because not much has been going on. I sensed a little improvement this weekend but W just called from the office and threw me for a huge loop. Apparently, her assistant has a condo in (you guessed it) Mexico that she can use for the labour day weekend. Of course no mention of me. My jaw dropped literally. I told her I know she does not need my permission but I was against the idea. the conversation ended pretty abruptly. A few minutes later, the phone rang and it was her again asking me to not be mad. I told her I was not mad just disappointed and at a loss for words. I told her that we are not living in the same world. I am concentrating on sleeping in the same bed as my wife and one day making love to her and she is planning more trips (we just got back from the DR in July). Yes she works hard and needs to relax but I would like to be involved in her plans. She said we would talk about it later. Now, on the positive side, she did not book her flight and spoke to me about it first. On the negative side, i can not imagine living with this type of person too much longer. Maybe I am the one with the problem....i did ask her to put herself in my shoes .... just for a minute. I will need to put my foot down on this one. If she decides to go in spite of my feelings, that will be the proverbial straw. I am prepared to pack my bags over this issue and I will. What do you guys think? Am I out in left field here?
