I had a birthday lunch with my WAW today. I DB the whole time we were together. The lunch and visit lasted 1hr and 45 minutes. No talk about R or M or C. We just talked about her job and my new motorcycle and the kids. I told her that I was proud of her and she deserved all the complements. I know it made her feel good. That was my whol;e purpose today, to make her feel good and leave this lunch happy and I think she did. I broke up the fun like the DB say to and we left together. When we got to our respective cars she said that she had a good lunch and we had a good long hug and a kiss on the lips. That hasn’t happened in three months.
Now I am not saying that everything is great, but it was so much better to see her and talk to her and make eye contact and we both did a lot of smile and few good laughs. This is only my first step. We plan to meet next month for scheduled doctors’ appointment and breakfast. I am so encouraged at this moment in time.
I am talking to my DB coach tonight and see what we can plan for my next step.
