Hi OD, Thanx. The R talk we didn't do until after the bomb . I suppose that pushed him away - although I was focused on the Whys and not the Hows. I figured when he left there was OW in the picture. And didn't focus on it. The confirmation yesterday - was a slap in the face to reality.
Well, per my DBcoach - my 180 is being very positive, lighthearted & trying to be his cheerleader. This has worked. Before when I emailed him, he would reply 2 weeks later. Up until 2 weeks ago, he would reply the same day or the next. I mentioned about just chatting (light subjects) on the phone. He agreed - but have heard nothing (that is the people pleaser in him). We have been meeting each other about once a month.
The OW subject - probably not to expose. What good would it do?
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
