Thanks for your input ladies, Karen I'm happy you are all right.
I will probably tell her every other week like I posted earlier.
When I found out she will have the kids on Sunday, I kept asking her if she is going to take them to church, she keeps telling me yes and I would love to see that, becasue they are a handful in church, they are so young they get bored very quick.
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never