The Sweet Used-To-Be (17)

[mountainman]

gForce, glad to hear you had such a good weekend. I was wondering if I could ask for some advice?

It's about walls. I wont go into the details about my sitch, but I am at a place right now where my W had a huge wall up to me. There has been a wall for awhile now, but this is like the great wall of china now. I have done nothing but been open to listening, making positive changes, no pressure or R talk initiated by me, basically good DBing (I think). But she just keeps putting this wall up higher and higher. Is this something that you went through in your M too? If so, how did you deal with it? what signs did you see that gave you hope that the wall might come down someday? If you didn't experience this, any advice?

thanks for taking the time to listen, even if you dont have the time to respond. Have a great day!