kat: you do want her to "feel" where her choices have landed her.
its to early I have to be accommodating until D is final - I'm really walking on thin ice right now all the paperwork is being prepared, So I don't want to upset her right now, once everything is done, then I'll feel a little better about telling her no on stuff.
I don't know if she will go for the Tues/Thur idea at least I can sell her on the fact that I want to drop the kids off also and to be fair we will split it every other week
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never