But I know it's too early. When the time is right, I'll know yet what I don't know is HOW to have them meet.
Any special kid days/events coming up? Make it a date involving the kids with activities your kids (and your date) will enjoy. Just an idea.
When the time IS right, you might want to discuss "boundaries" with BF before getting together for this day out with the kids. I'm not so sure you ought to immediately introduce him to your kids as your BF. You might be more than friends, but are your children emotionally ready to know this? Will they be able to understand what this new R means? Not sure if I'm making much sense, but what I mean by boundaries is setting limits to what's allowed and what's not in front of the kids during the date - such as no hand holding, no kissing, etc until you feel it's ok for your children to see this kind of interaction between the two of you.
Again, JMO. Take care, cw.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
