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[glamgirl]

You are right Bethie. I can totally relate to FIB's w. I now see clearly why God put me on this journey. I treated my h horribly. Heck when all this first went down, I had a restraining order against me. That should give you a clue as to how much anger I was carrying around.

In the beginning of course to me everything was my h's fault. Now as I have begun to look inward I am trying to fix myself. I am reading a great book right now, something about how to love and it identifies your past with how you relate in R. It is so interesting that how I was raised has a huge impact on my R with h. It's those triggers in a R that keep coming up. I am hoping this book gives me a better understanding of how to relate to my h.

You are right Bethie those hurts will need to be healed before FIB's w can be whole. Regardless of how this all ends up, I am a better person spiritually, mentally, physically and that is exactly what FIB will walk away with.

Yes change the dance Bethie. That can be done and it starts with one. Go see that movie "Fireproof". It's an awesome movie about love and God!

There are alternatives like mc, ic, church, etc, but it takes a willing participant. I praise God right now that my h is willing.