I have to ask because I must have missed something.
What was your Big Mistake?
My big mistake was when i was gambling. I assume that's what he means?
It sounds like your W has several "vices" she holds against you. You've mentioned gambling, drinking, not spending time with her. Those are very big deals to your W, which is why she keeps bringing them up. And it will take a lot to convince her you've changed.
As for your latest update, do you really think NG #2 will work out any better than the first one?
Guess we will see, and yep my XW (i don't call her my W anymore to people) , holds alot against me, i am anxious to have her out of my life, i know this isn't the place to talk like that. She has hurled way too many hurtful words at me and I hit a point a few weeks ago where I said i was done, I meant it. Time to move on, last night I asked her if she was trying to take the house, she said she can't on her wage. So limbo will continue, i may take it still, but only if absolutely necessary. Even then..
There has really been way too much damage, that even if she changed her mind, it would be too late, because my mind is made up.
I would say I am a DB failure, but I know I am not, I have GALed, and it has done me a world of great.
