Ms b, Your H is a cop, so he definitely knows the consequences for acting like that. Glad you drew the line and sent the e-mail. If it happens again, take stronger action.
The anger, however, should be expected. His life isn't the happy little mid-life crisis he dreamed of. It never is. My W's anger amazes me right now, and how quickly it flares up. She's turned violent a couple times, but it's not like I'm worried she could hurt me, so your sitch is much different. Hang in there, and be careful.
(((Ms b)))
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK