I suppose, I should act as if & let this all roll off me. I really do need to talk to my H about or R. I don't want to spring it on him when/if we meet, yet sending him an email about a R talk might scare him away.
Ah, what to do????
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)