2 steps forward, 3 back

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Ok, breathe in 4 counts, out 8 counts repeat 3 times.

You can't control this. Even if you get custody, which you probably will, he will have visitation and the same things may still happen. Judges don't usually order them not to do this, and even if they did, it can't be enforced.

He isn't making a good decision and you can talk to him about it....and I think you'd be best off coming from the perspective of the kids feelings.

Focus on what you can control.

I'm sorry he's acting stupid.