JCJ - yeah - I have to back off of it completely... the anniversary love talk etc just pushed her further away.
I need to cool it and just figure out how to "Get a Life" and move on for now...
I'll have keep interaction with W to a minimum - just keep it cordial and friendly.
I read Divorce Busters but not Divorce Remedy yet. I am almost wondering if my readings are making my think too much and want too much - which is just hurting myself. I have to back off giving and wanting too - that wasn't working... just work on myself I guess.
I do not know "Act as if" but I think I can guess.
Me:40 / W:33 / D:3 T:7.5/M:4 D Day: 1/24/08 Legal Separated: 6/12/08 BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08 Suspect BF pre-dates D Day