JCJ - yeah - I have to back off of it completely... the anniversary love talk etc just pushed her further away.

I need to cool it and just figure out how to "Get a Life" and move on for now...

I'll have keep interaction with W to a minimum - just keep it cordial and friendly.

I read Divorce Busters but not Divorce Remedy yet. I am almost wondering if my readings are making my think too much and want too much - which is just hurting myself. I have to back off giving and wanting too - that wasn't working... just work on myself I guess.

I do not know "Act as if" but I think I can guess.


Me:40 / W:33 / D:3
T:7.5/M:4
D Day: 1/24/08
Legal Separated: 6/12/08
BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08
Suspect BF pre-dates D Day

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