I am flipping out. Kids just told me that GF slept over last night and has done it several times. THat means H ang GF sleep in a queen bed while my kids are on the floor in the same room. Great role model? I think not. My father in law assured me last month that he did not allow her to stay. I have been trying to call him and confront him on it. I think he doesn't know it as she leaves before he gets up. When I dated him I was not allowed to stay over, amazing how roles have changed. When he came over this morning that means he had just left her. Ewwwwww


Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08