I really have to chime in to agree with BethM. My formerly sweet and gentle H turned into a total stranger while he was pulling away to be with OW. Once he left it was a real relief. (My physician had been concerned about my mild hypertension over the past year. Diet, weight, and lack of exercise were not issues. H and I are living separately and my BP is normal without any medication.)
It is so much easier when you do not have to see them every day. Having not read your entire situation I'm not aware of the issues which keep you under the same roof, but, it is the most difficult place to be.
Me: 59 H: 59 Together: 28 years Married: 25 years in August "There may be someone else" 12/26/07 H signed a one year lease 4/1/08 H moved out 5/11/08 H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08 Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08
