Ok, I'm done feeling sorry for myself now and back on track.
The remainder of our day yesterday went well together. We hung out and relaxed and then bbq'd chicken out on the deck at the end of the day. We even managed to share a couple of frozen margaritas together...just like previous summers. I really enjoyed that.
I see that my H is in a bind as far as our anniversary is concerned. So I just won't bring it up again, and see what works out. No sense borrowering worry.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.